Well, you should have made the effort. How can you moan about attendance if you and many other long standing fans can't be bothered to get off their arses and support the club in their hour of need? I don't support the Allams either, not by a long shot. But realised the team needed support, plus my 6 year old might not get an opportunity to get to Wembley again.
It's funny that most of the 'fans' complaining about the lack of attendance are those that couldn't be arsed going.
Shame on you.
Why should I have 'made the effort' ? (not that it would been much effort at all, in fact it would have been easier than not going)
This was a game which was being played to decide who gets promotion, and I didn't want to get promoted. I decided I couldn't go to a match where I didn't want the result that the club was desperate to get, mainly because I knew I would be firmly supporting the team when I got there (how could I not?) even though I didn't want the 'prize'
To be fair I won't be able to explain that to you because I can't really explain it to myself.
And just to confuse things even further if I was going to be taking a young son, then I would have gone. Because the 'prize' of seeing them enjoying the experience would have easily trumped my contradictory feelings
So things aren't simple.
I haven't complained about the lack of attendance, or that others felt differently to me, because I understand there are lots of reasons to go and lots of reasons not to go. And I certainly feel no shame.

