I really like this site. It allows me the freedom to post without the pathetic moderation of the original site. It has attracted the more thoughtful posters, and has not attracted those who simply want to pick a fight and resort to personal and abusive comments. They are welcome to find a different site. Our mods to a great job of getting them to "shape up or ship out."
As for the "hug a skate" attitude, that depends what you mean. I enjoy banter with some of their number and never miss an opportunity to make a joke at Pompey's expense. I have been able to suggest that a Pompey poster on our board is a self-pleasurer without the mods being troubled at all. More than once, in fact. It's a question of doing it in a witty and entertaining way.
Finally, the ignore function means that you can completely avoid the posts of those that you find tiresome or dull or both, even amongst our own fans if you wish!