Come on now, in the past he has had individual debatable calls, this game wasn't one of them.
We were just ****.
I think you can't dismiss the effect of previous games with him in charge. Do you run the ball at the defence knowing that they are going to be allowed to knock you around with impunity? Do you start to try "other" things and become a little less certain?
I think it is a huge problem for the FA though. The longer it goes on, the less good it looks on Mike Dean and all referees.