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For Tom Perez and his daughter, that connection is not only about football, but about love, loss, and honouring the memory of someone who would have wanted them to live life to the fullest, Tom’s sister, Liz, whose spirit was felt in every step of their journey to the Stadium of Light.
There are football clubs you choose, and then there are the ones that choose you.
For Tom Perez, his journey with Sunderland began thousands of miles away in the United States, sparked by something as simple, and as powerful, as a child’s gift.
“When my daughter was in kindergarten,” Tom recalls, “one of the coaches worked for Ellis Short and brought Sunderland kits back for all the girls.”
It was a small gesture, but it lit a spark. Tom didn’t yet have a team. His family loved football, his daughter played the game, and Sunderland unexpectedly became their club.
Through every chapter, from the Premier League to League One, he stayed loyal. He listened to commentary subscriptions, followed every match he could, and built a bond with a club he had never physically seen.
His daughter, meanwhile, grew up alongside that journey.
“I think I was five when I got the shirt,” she says. “Now I’m 22, almost 23.”
At first, it was just a kit. But as weekends filled with matches and her own football developed, Sunderland became something more.
“I was a defender, so I loved watching that side of the game, the hard work, the players behind the scenes. It just stuck.”
For 15 years, the idea of visiting Wearside lived in Tom’s imagination, walking into the Stadium of Light, hearing the roar, and being part of it all.
This year, that dream finally became reality.