I thought about posting this a couple of weeks back:
https://www.bbc.com/sport/football/64584541.amp
Referee abuse: Hundreds tell of safety fears at grassroots level
14 February 2023
Hundreds of grassroots referees have told the BBC they fear for their safety when refereeing and are dissatisfied with current measures to tackle abuse.
More than 900 referees in England responded to a Radio 5 Live questionnaire, with 293 saying they had been physically abused by spectators, players, coaches or managers.
Some described being punched, headbutted and spat at.
Almost all the respondents had experienced some form of verbal abuse.
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What the referees say
Ryan, 30, from Lancashire, once had to hide in a back street for an hour after being chased by players.
"Every week when you go out as a referee, you think what's going to happen this week. I sometimes don't want to turn up. It's freezing cold and you're going to stand there for 90 minutes to be abused, for £30, which is what you get paid," he said.
"Without a referee turning up at the weekend, you're not going to have football and grassroots will eventually end up going into the abyss."
He called for referees to be issued with body cameras, which the FA is hoping to
pilot in a trial this year.
Megan, 18, from Oxfordshire, had a parent come on the pitch with raised fists after she sent a child off.
"He was yelling abuse at me and saying this is why girls shouldn't be in football," she said.
"I think he got a six-match ban and fined, but that isn't enough.
"It was probably the scariest experience I've had when I've been watching, playing or reffing football. It really had an impact on my mental health, I was just worried all the time. I took two weeks off and worked my way back.
"All referees get abuse and I also get abuse because of my gender - I'm female in a male-dominated area. I've had people comment on my chest in the middle of a game."
Adrian, 59, Portsmouth: "In nearly 24 years of refereeing, I have been threatened, verbally abused, been told they know where I live, also been assaulted five times. Why I carry on I don't know - suppose the love of football."
Bill, 74, Leamington Spa: "I have been stopped from driving my car by players lying in front of my car and jumping on the bonnet. Quite a few years ago I was punched from behind and kicked on the floor. I don't look my age and have vast experience with a good reputation so I can handle myself. But younger refs are walking away."
Joe, 18, Romford: "I've been assaulted by a grown adult player when I was 16, threatened multiple times by managers and parents. A player at under-14 level threatened to have me stabbed and 'get his gang on me'. Managers have threatened to see me in the car park. Players have also said this.
"We need legislation at government level which offers us protection. The police need to take assaults on referees as criminal matters not just 'a football matter', and the FA needs to invest more and increase sanctions."
Jacob, 15, Essex: "I've had players at under-13 level swearing at me and parents undermining my authority."
'Players have a responsibility to tone it down' - Sutton
Former Premier League striker Chris Sutton - whose father was a referee - was asked by Radio 5 Live to referee his first match, a junior game, to find out what it's like on the other side.
"Any form of abuse is totally unacceptable," said the former Norwich, Blackburn, Celtic and Chelsea forward who presents the BBC's 606 football phone-in show.
"It's an issue that needs to be dealt with, otherwise grassroots football won't survive."
Sutton has admitted to previously confronting a young referee while watching his son play and now wants to address the issue.
"I walked on the field because I was concerned about how badly injured he was. I shouldn't have done that. I realise how difficult it is," he said.
Sutton said players at all levels should stop swearing at referees.
"We see Premier League and other professional players do that on a regular basis. I've done it. It doesn't make it right and all players have a responsibility to tone it down."