I moved to N.J. In 1999 and then into Manhattan in 2002. Church us a massive part of the WASP community and even bigger (if that’s possible) in the southern Baptist states. I’m not a fan of religion in any way, I think it causes so much trouble, but I have no issues with anyone believing in whatever they wish, but it should never be allowed to stop people rights to a peaceful way of life.
I’ve had so many arguments with these stupid “Pro Life” people there who feel that a collection of cells with little or no sentient feeling should have the same rights as a full grown child. Of course, if the child grows up poor, abused, gay or disabled, then they abdicate responsibility……….
I've mentioned on here before that I am a Catholic Atheist.
I don't believe in god, but follow the culture of being a Catholic, that was indoctrinated into me from birth to about 18 when I finally left Catholic schools.
To be fair, I could say I am a Christian Atheist as basically I follow most of the '10 commandments' but surely that is just being a decent human:
- I am the Lord your God. You shall not have strange gods before me. You shall not make to thyself any graven thing; nor the likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or in the earth beneath, nor of those things that are in the waters under the earth. You shall not adore them nor serve them.
^^don't follow that. Total BS IMO, but each to their own. This is the one commandment that divides humans and creates separate religions. You could though reword it to:
There is no Lord or God. You shall not have strange gods. You shall not make to thyself any graven thing; nor the likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or in the earth beneath, nor of those things that are in the waters under the earth. You shall not adore them nor serve anything.
- You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain.
^^don't follow that. Don't have a 'Lord", but good practice to not take anyone in vain.
- Remember to keep holy the Sabbath day.
^^ don't keep it holy, but take at least one day to myself for myself a week
- Honor your father and your mother.
^^Yep
^^ Yep
- You shall not commit adultery.
^^ Yep
^^ Yep
- You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
^^ Yep
- You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife.
^^ Yep (have you met my neighbours

)
- You shall not covet your neighbor’s goods.
^^ Yep
So all in all, you can be an Atheist and be a good human. You don't need a divisive religion to live a happy life.
To come back on the topic discussed, there are grey areas I suppose around abortion in the above - is it killing or is it giving a woman a choice?
From an Atheist stance, if life isn't provided by a god then it is a choice. Down to when does life begin - when the baby pops out, when it is conceived or when it is in the womb. I don't have the answer and we won't all agree on it at all, but a dangerous thing to let the state decide.
And off my soap box
