Have you worked in sales? That's all it is. You work on the assumption that they want to be with you. Example...My phone is quite hot right now but I’m sure I’ll not convert with any of them.
Saff turns up at her door.. 'Knock knock'
Woman opens door. 'Hi, can I help'
Saff. 'Hi, it's Saff, we've been talking online...
Woman. 'Erm, ok, I've never give you my address'
Saff. 'I know that but I've doxxed you and I'm here now. Wanna do summit?'
It's all about the confidence. Women love confident blokes.