I think its a case of no really understanding and trying to but if you like to throw names fair enough. I suppose I can only try to understand why?
My view here is that when a person stands outside the problem looking in the are able to see both sides but only from their perspective and we apply our perspectives as its all we have.
Thus I can see why women who've tried to compete for years would be upset but on the other side i can say I struggle to understand the trans community but try to. Its not precisely easy. One person here wants to after competing for many year was one gender, and has i assume completed a transgender journey, now wants to compete as another gender. As much as it would be nice to have a world where the first half of a person's life was deleted or whatever is desired it just isn't that easy and many times it is this that makes it hard to understand. For example taking names and ignoring parents and all their childhood memories and all of that so its tough. this perosn wants to complete at the highest level of this sport having had many years or a different biological process that could give a large advantage
In many ways bending over backwards to resolve every single case only drives more resistance than benefits.
For example I can say I was on the side of the LGBTQ community when bathrooms were discussed in the US and was against our office sticking a sign on the disabled toilets saying gender neutral etc as it was actually segregating people. However I am clearly a bigot so my view doesn't count

I personally can see women's views of "fear" as they are afraid of men for a sad but valid reason but i can also see that a person identifying as a women shouldn't be treated as a pervert for using the toilet.