I'm not sure what you mean. I think you're agreeing with me? Still the fact that the ref went to the monitor and reviewed a penalty but didn't for our sending off boils my beans. Identical scenarios except if anything Bailly was lucky to connect with the ball, vesty was much better timed.
My point is that you should be looking at the onfield referees. They were the reason for the different decisions.
Our referee saw everything he needed to live. And he messed the decision right up! Aim your anger at him - it was awful from him.
Whereas tonight, the referee didn't see everything he needed to. He (apparently) missed the touch on the ball. Once the VAR informed him of that, there was reason for him to review his original decision. What he saw on the replays was different he what he thought he saw live.