Bergwijn was a Jose recruit. if he hasn't managed to coach a consistently decent level out of him after a year, that's on Jose.
Vinicius was a Jose recruit. If after 5 months he hasn't managed to coach more than 90 minutes against 8th tier opposition and 5 minutes in the EPL out of him, that's on Jose.
Bale was a Jose recruit. If he is indeed broken after years of injury and inactivity so that after 5 months he has still contributed minimally, that's on Jose.
Dele has been in and out of contention for months. Hasn't shown nearly enough to warrant a place in the line up but then again nor have Lucas or Bergwijn. If Jose wants to keep him, play him. If not, sell him. His mismanagement is on Jose.
And your last point is exactly what's wrong with us. Aside from his goal, Kane was crap tonight. Son was even worse. If those two don't turn up, Spurs don't turn up. 82% of our goals from them. We're totally fecked if either of them gets injured. We have no plan B, other than Jose's pathetic approach to substitutions, which he apparently copied from Poch in the Barca home game: throw on random attacking players and hope for the best. Our shape at the end looked like a mushroom cloud. It was a joke.
Jose out.