Yeah, pop psych doesn’t work either. There is no faux pas, Regardless of historical guff or any excuse to allow such phrases to slip through, the root of the saying is perfectly clear.
If you don’t think the phrase “handbags” infers a female stereotype, fine. But it does, regardless of how you want to plea because the basis of that phrase is rooted in sexism. What you think and what actually exists in reality are in fact two distinct things and trying to make out I was being hysterical or daft doesn’t change that, no matter how aloof or right you want to appear.
Deal with it.
You're just waffling and squirming now. It's embarrassing for you.
You've made an arse of yourself again, and shown yourself to be a hypocrite, so I'll leave the final word(s) to you, as you'll only keep digging and looking even dafter if I respond.

