I've asked for that list of things to do, not holding my breath. Getting an answer that goes beyond generalisations and platitudes would be a first.It means people like you “patting me on the head” and saying, “there, there, don’t you be the one that makes it fail,” make me boil.
What exactly do you think I will do to make it fail, or even work?
Give me a list of things you want me to do, to “help things go the right way.”
I get on with my job and life as usual, trying to provide for my family and do what I can to help others as I go, when I can. Sadly, there is a strong chance that Brexit is going to make my job a lot harder, or even potentially stop it (should no deal happen).
I find your approach incredibly patronising and to be honest, the more I read your posts, the more I wonder what bubble you live in.


