My Mrs has worked on community funded programs for over a decade helping the vulnerable in society. She says all of Toby’s behaviours, wishing death on everyone, being very aggressive, unwilling to show compassion, are all traits of somebody who unfortunately has been abused as a child growing up. Whether that be sexually, mentally or physically, she said it’s impossible to tell without knowing them personally.
This is the honest reason as to why I very rarely respond to Toby’s constant aggression with me. It’s not his fault. It could and probably will be the reason why he moved countries, though.