I have to admit to having lived in the Netherlands Frenchie - I lived in Haarlem for about 18 months (25km north of Amsterdam). There are the urban, multi cultural connurbations of Amsterdam, Rotterdam and Utrecht but they are a World apart. Once you get into rural Holland (particularly in the north) it can all get very insular. I don't like making generalizations about people in this way but if countries like Morocco and Italy are the peak of the hospitality scale then the rural Netherlands are the direct opposite. Actually the jokes about the Scots and money could, more applicably, be applied to the Calvinist traditions of rural Dutchmen. If you understand my meaning - they are stingy ! The best thing you can do in the Netherlands is to give somebody cut price on something. They are also very direct - they say exactly what they think, which leads some other cultures to think of them as rude. Unfortunately rural Holland is also impeccably clean and tidy - whether they have a car or a bike they wash it at least twice per week

They also think they are the most tolerant people on this planet. In many ways they correspond to stereotypes about the Germans - much more so than the Germans themselves. Another point is that, whereas in the UK. everybody has at least some French at school (possibly German as well), and all German kids have English and French, the Dutch have English and German, and so don't have any real background in French.