Ive dedicated my life to them mate, practically brought them up on my own as babies and i now have joint custody.
Family is everything man! So glad you’ve got loving lads. My kids and my Mrs are my world too. Love the bones of them! Never ashamed to say it either. Although the kids aren’t keen on me saying it in public!!
My son lives with us, two children boy 5, girl 3, he has custody she has visiting (atm) My wife and I provide 'wrap around care'.. which means I do miss a lot of golf, but happy to do it.
Yes my boys hug and kiss me on a morning before they go into school, times like that are priceless and short lived because they grow up fast.