I appreciate the points you make and ideally we'd be more positive but I think people are just sick of it. As a fanbase we've put up with an awful lot and what is left of the camel's back is quickly being broken.
At Rotherham before the game people were very vocally positive towards the team. Within 30 seconds we could have been a goal down but the crowd was good and even buoyant during a brief spell of being in their half.
We are like a wife who has been knocked about by her husband for years but always tried to focus on the time they were young and happy together. Eventually we'll snap and kill him with the iron.
I totally agree with what you are saying especially in the first paragraph and feel sick of the whole thing for a couple of years but we have a few solutions we can go and support another team, nah or we can embrace it and TRY to be positive and offer support or just be negative about the whole situation, of course, we can just switch off and not bother watching football at all, which I must admit has been kind of my way as I've been forced by personal circumstances a new baby, no job kind of takes your attention away. One thing I know in life negativity gets you nowhere and just leads to depression for you and the people around you, so its not an option in my book.