http://www.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/article/39860999/what-its-like-to-be-a-victim-of-stealthing Who on here is a stealther ? <gas> Is it rape ? Why would you ?
You'd have to be a pretty sneaky b'stard to whip off the raincoat and blow your load in the lady parts. I'm usually too busy counting my lucky stars or thinking of bus timetables to think about going au naturel for the big finish.
How the **** can taking the condom off whilst having sex be rape? I actually thought that "stealthing" when I saw the thread title would be sticking your cock into you bird whilst she is drunk and asleep. Which incidentally, also isn't rape.
Technically they both are. Consenting to sex expecting your partner to use a condom isn't the same as starting off with the blob on then slipping it off halfway through for the creampie finish. Sex with someone who is asleep is also rape because you haven't been given explicit consent. Not being conscious enough to consent isn't consent. Scenario 1 "Fancy a shag?" "snore" "I said, do you fancy a shag?" "snore" "Well I'll take that as a yes" 5 years in The Scrubs Scenario 2 "Would you like a shag" "No but I don't mind if you want one" "Okay then" starts shagging "you sure this is ok?" "Yeah, go for it but don't expect me to fake it" "Right you are" half an hour later "this still ok?" "You are a sex god, I wasn't up for it before but don't stop now" "Message understood" True story, sort of.