I don’t have stew on a Tuesday anymore (not that that was laced with anything strong anyway).
I think I’m quite calm today (that's just been confirmed by the nurse in fact) but really do think we need to introduce a forum catchphrase, people. When anyone, from now on, comes onto the thread with an ‘I’ve been told’ which doesn’t say who by or give a line of further description can we all type back with the words ‘Told by who?!?’ or should that be 'whom'?!?
Incidentally, Todell’s response was absolutely brilliant, first class and all ‘I’ve been tolds’ should be like that - simply add onto it by whom you have been told. When that happens that is this forum at its best. But to simply say something along the lines of ‘I’ve been told…’ without further explanation isn’t good enough and to me, at any rate, leads to more questions than answers.