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Discussion in 'Swansea City' started by swanseaandproud, Jul 27, 2017.

  1. swanseaandproud

    swanseaandproud Well-Known Member

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    Let anyone be what they want to be i dont give a toss. What i do object to is being Gay being shoved down your throat everywhere you look.....The papers and the TV and Gay pride, It is everywhere, If you are Gay then that is your choice but i am not interested and dont wish to hear about it. I would love to see someone high up who thinks like millions of us that shoving gayness down everyone's throat should stop, they are not special and dont deserve all this promotional rubbish and get on with their lives as they want too....I dont want to hear about it, i dont care about it.....Alfie son get a life i dont care if you are Gay or not and i am only interested on what a great player you were and not what you do behind closed doors......
     
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  2. LIBERTARIAN

    LIBERTARIAN Well-Known Member

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    Unfortunately, there are very many people who still cannot accept "gays", either male or female.
    The religious brigade are especially opposed to the so called 'unnatural act'.
    Muslims, Catholics, and followers of other persuasions, are particularly vocal in their antipathy.
    Personally, I don't give a damn. But I am not tainted by any form of religious belief and that helps.
     
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    neveroffsidereff Well-Known Member

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    I'm fed up of the BBC shoving gayness down our throats!!
     
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  4. swanseaandproud

    swanseaandproud Well-Known Member

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    I dont like is being stuffed down your throat everywhere you turn....Why are gays so special ? I have gay mates and they dont act like these gays that want to promote who they are, If your gay then your gay but i dont want to know and i dont care.....
     
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    Personally I can't say that I've heard any homophobic chanting at any football match I've attended in recent times.

    However there is an issue in football (and other sports) with the fact that young men do not feel able to live their lives openly because they are gay.

    Statistically, about 5-10% of footballers are likely to be gay as this is the norm for the population.

    The FA have shown they have no grasp of the situation and personally I think Alfie highlighting the problem will have enormous long term benifits for everyone concerned.
     
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  6. LIBERTARIAN

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    It's possibly just a reaction to all the negativity they have had to face down the years.
    'Coming out' is a relatively recent, and often quite brave, thing to do.
     
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    You don't have to take it down the throat Dai.
     
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  8. swanseaandproud

    swanseaandproud Well-Known Member

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    I was going to text Alfie to shove his gay promotion up his arse.....but thought that was a wrong thing to say to him..<laugh> No but seriously why would anyone care if a footballer is gay or not....It is a private thing that should stay private as far as im concerned......
     
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    You are basically saying that gay footballers should remain "in the closet".

    It is not a case of privacy. They just wish to lead a life where they do not have to hide anything - just like you or I.

    Unfortunately, they feel they are not allowed that luxury because of the homophobic environment they work in.
     
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    swanseaandproud Well-Known Member

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    Not at all, I'm saying why do you need to tell the world. It dont make them special or important.....I dont think being gay is a natural thing but i dont care what anyone does i just dont want to listen to what i regard as immoral and unnatural act....I will never accept same sex marriage in any shape or form but that is my problem and the way i was brought up in a strong chapel community.....
     
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    The issue Dai is that they have to live their lives in secret because of the pressure from the rest of society - often led by religion.

    As I have mentioned already, 5-10% of the population are likely to be gay in any society. You may not feel that is natural, but that is how nature has made the population.
     
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    Can you imagine if we had a heterosexual pride, There would be hell to pay.......If your gay good luck to you but keep it within the gay community and not go around as if it is some sort of trophy by promoting gay and lesbian.....what is gay pride if it is not shoving it in your face ? what is that all about ? It is asking for trouble..
     
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    so true Dai, LEFTARDS need to be shot and the pollys who bow to their inane demands need sacking
     
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    So, you are a homophobe then Dai. You've 'come out'.
     
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    not a case of being Homophone Vetch, it is a case of the minority trying to rule the majority, I wonder how many GBLT are in Wales and how much influence they have over the Leftard pollies who suck up to win their seats
     
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    I didn't realise that so many poofs were on this forum, pls delete me if I am not one of the 90% who think GBLT who should be are strange?????????????????
     
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    To a point I'd agree with you about Gay Pride marches. They have served their purpose and most people these days don't care about other people's sexuality.

    That wasn't the point of Alfie's programme.

    The point was that while society has progressed, the business of football hasn't.
     
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  18. PGFWhite

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    The percentage of gay people in Wales will be the same as in Australia...or Africa or America or any other country.

    As for politics I think a Conservative government gave the vote for same sex marriage, so I'm not sure why/how you make any political conclusions about people's sexuality.
     
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    I'm not sure how many "poofs" as you call them are on this forum. Reading between the lines I don't think Vetch is and neither am I. However most people will have relatives who are gay and will thus oppose homophobia where we come across it.
     
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    "minority trying to rule the majority". I don't understand where you are coming from there, musty.
     
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