You may find this hard to believe but all those countries in your first and second groups are in Europe which is actually quite a small part of the world and either bordering or next country along on the road to Berlin once the Nazi advance was stalled. Had I been the ruler of a country which had lost over 20 million men women and children, I think I too would have wanted to ensure that invaders could never again come close to Russian soiI.
Yugoslavia was never invaded by Russia
I could add substantially to your third list but they have done no more than the West in choosing an ally - from the enemies of the countries the Americans chose to sponsor and sell arms to - in order to do exactly the same. The Russians had their sphere of influence. So unless you are going to tell me that America and Britain are also not entitled to do s I don't see what's wrong with that. It's called the balance of power.
Remind me about Norway. Because if I recall the map of Europe they'd have to march through Finland and Sweden first to try it on. Or are you confusing yourself with one of the recent Eurovision song contests?
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