Welcome you empty, soul-destroyed souls. Now let me begin by saying a week ago today I broke up with my girlfriend. Needless to say I am all over the place, emotionally distraught. I wake up thinking about her, I go to sleep thinking about and I dream about her. Now, I know a lot of you experienced chaps have felt this at one stage at another. But what I'm putting forward a here is a chance to cleanse your souls by discussing previous relationship breakdowns and remedy's to heal the broken heart. And the chance to help other distressed individuals in the present, near or far future. When they feel the symptoms, down in the dumps, ready to pack it all in.. They'll immediately think of this wonderful thread on the football forum that is Not606, and know this is the place to come. Let the heart strung flood-gates open. please log in to view this image
I broke up with my partner of 8yrs last November, same as u really didn't know what to do with myself, distraught etc Then I began shagging anything with a pulse around Xmas time and It felt great, almost a realisation that perhaps I wasn't as in love as I once thought I was, simply because she pops in to my head once a month now if that, she called me the other night infact, 1st time we've spoken since I left and tbh I felt like I was talking to a stranger, spose what I'm trying to say is time heals, but if u ain't got the patience then sticking the love pipe up a few birds speeds up the process
But did any of them girls match up to her? Doesn't help that I'm on the same college course as her so it's slowing down the whole process. + still a glimmer hope of getting back together which is also delaying the hurt.
Yeah mate and some! Girl I'm with now could suck a basketball through a McDonald's straw. Unleash the penis, it's win win here, you shag a fuglee girl and she finds out its all "I'm nicer than her" **** and she gets u back through jealously , shag a fitter girl than the ex and it's all "oh no I'm not even up to par anymore" and she tries to get u back, either way u win. The only way you don't win is by being a fanny and mourning over this relationship, females hate that needy **** as much as us guy's so many up and go get you some stds
more excuses to have lads nights and you don't have to answer to anyone, you said college, so plenty of time to sort your career and lifelong partner out, just enjoy the ride. you are still at college, and obviously still young, plenty of parties etc to enjoy first.
She'd only get in the way of the WC anyway so look on the bright side Sort of similar was seeing a girl at work and all was going well then she didn't want anything serious and wanted to just take some time out. It's hard seeing her everyday at work but just have to forget and move on. Spend more time with your mates on lads night out, they're the best ones to help you forget
Right you lads are right! Sick of feeling **** about this whole thing, need go out and get some action, have a bit of fun with no strings attached. Cheers fellas
Good lad! You are a top fella, any lass would be lucky to have you. Shag around for a bit until she is out of your system, its why my old man gave you a cock.
exactly the same, but she just stopped talking to me, no answers what so ever, ive known some harsh girls before but this girl who was the nicest ive ever met has made me feel the worst ive ever felt, I haven't even got an answer
Sometimes answers hurt even more mate. The girl I'm on about, I talked to her to get back with her and she said she'll talk when she's feeling ready to.. This was Wednesday! She walks around looking happy as larry, it's difficult because sometimes you have no idea whether they're playing games, still have feelings, want to be with you etc.
What about that Allah or BUddah fella? Think they could swing Magic's way? Especially Buddha, head from a fat person is like warm mashed potatoes.
It's a tough one though mate! I'm playing the no contact process, not for manipulation but for self healing. It was a tough choice, by giving the perception of moving on she may do the same, or she may look elsewhere! Like I said, no contact means if she cares for me she'll try to work things out, if she doesn't it gives me a platform to move on.
Not saying its not hard, people said the same to me but I couldn't do it I split with my current partner after about a year, we were apart for about two months. Most of that time I was heart broken and constantly getting in touch. After a while, I though "**** this ****" and went out with the intention of shagging as many girls as possible. My mrs (not married) started contacting me instead, when I told her I'd slept with someone else she was obviously upset at first (didn't speak at all for two days) but then she came to my house and we "worked things out" so to speak I'll advise against this route though, got three ****ing kids with her now
Two months is a long time.. Weird how things work out! Trouble is, besides being on the same course we're also going to the same uni in September . I think you may be right though, as what has been said above. Women don't like the moping, self pitying, etc. just need to be able to channel the emotions in a somewhat positive way, let em' do what the **** they want and if they seriously give a **** they'll at least try to work it out. How did she act post break up? Wanted nothing to do with you? Adamant that you weren't getting back together or did she just want some space?
