Hi all reamsofverse (Paul) here moderator of the intothevally forum with some advice for those who want to take it........Don't desert this forum because of one person, the mods on here deserve better than that because without them this place wouldn't exist in the first place. I had to take the decision to ban JA from our forum some time ago so I know where you are all coming from. It's wasn't easy I have to admit because at the end of the day he is the same as what we are a Charlton fan but common sense had to prevail in the end because he was like a night owl and you just wouldn't know what you were waking up to every morning when you logged onto your forum, it almost became a full time job shadowing him so I know exactly how difficult it is for the mods on here you just can't monitor the forum for 24 hours a day and at times you just have to trust your members, unfortunately as time went on one of them proved that he just couldn't be trusted so action had to be taken albeit with a bit of a heavy heart I must say because deep down I think JA means well but he just doesn't know when to stop and the time comes when you have to decide whether to give him the benefit of the doubt one more time or ban him before other members leave in their droves......In the end he made the decision for me but it's important to remember that however s***ty you feel about banning him he was given enough warnings and chose not to take any of them on board. He was the orchestrator of his own downfall on our site in the end, we lost a few members becasue of him and are slowly recovering. So like I say my advice to you all is don't turn your backs, it would be easy for me to divert you elswhere but that's not what im about, I have come on here in support of the mods and you should all do the same thing. As for you JA if you are looking in I have tried to give you my advice on many occasions but you would never listen, it's not right mate that you go from forum to forum turning the moderators lives into one of supervising you 24/7, if you really have got a book to sell I suggest that you keep your head down if you want to sell any of them, there are not many Charlton fans left for you to alienate. People have worked hard to get their forums up and running and we do it so we can interact with other Addick fans, we give our time and hard work to the cause and it's not right that you go from one to the other leaving a trail of destruction behind you Charlton fan or not. Have a bit of respect.
i am being on best behaviour thanks paul,i am sticking to the number of threads 2 a day and have got better
paul-sorry regarding into the valley i was trying to hard perhaps at the time,i got a bit carried away bit re putting youngsters in !im passionate cafc fan and only want the best for cafc -i have a lot of respect for all charlton fans including all on here and into the valley website,i know i was a right plum back in the summer its only because i missed my footy !i am trying to stick to the rules of this forum so its enjoyable for everyone else on here im hoping fans can stick with this forum and give me and others a chance and i wont let anyone down UP THE ADDICKS
I think this says it all. Reasonable people are leaving this forum because of one person - for me that is enough. If he isnt dealt with then its likely i will move elsewhere too.
