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Discussion in 'Sunderland' started by Wayne the Punk, Mar 23, 2024.

  1. Wayne the Punk

    Wayne the Punk Well-Known Member

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    Everyone feeling good?

    My relationship has broken, we are separating while still living in the same house. We have 3 dogs to fight over and a expensive house to get sold.

    Everyone else ok?
     
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  2. Prehab26

    Prehab26 Well-Known Member

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    Sorry to hear that mate. Hope something is worked out soon. I couldn't stay in the same kip personally. I'd be looking at short term rent while it gets sorted.
     
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  3. Wayne the Punk

    Wayne the Punk Well-Known Member

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    We have 3 dogs, she is the major money maker (now) I cant afford to move out, we have 4 bedrooms its pretty amicable, just wish it would all be done, TY by the way, I think there are probably people in much worse positions
     
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    Disco down under Well-Known Member

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    Sorry to hear that, with a toddler in the house I just do not know what I would do if things broke down. I'd struggle for sure.

    Stay strong.
     
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  5. Wayne the Punk

    Wayne the Punk Well-Known Member

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    I am but often, snap at stupid things, didnt win the euromillions last night so that pissed me off :)
     
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  6. The Norton Cat

    The Norton Cat Well-Known Member

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    Been there, done that.
    For anyone going through it, it gets easier and you come out the other side. Can be tough on the way though.
    Good luck, keep calm, stay strong.
     
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    Chunksafc Well-Known Member

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    Sorry to hear that mate, hope you get sorted soon.
     
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  8. Wayne the Punk

    Wayne the Punk Well-Known Member

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    Thank you but it will be a long time, its a pricey house around here, just have to keep going
     
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    Good luck. If it's amicable it's better all round and shows great maturity in my view.
    Things will improve mid term no doubt.
     
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    If its amicable you can print off diy divorce forms and sit down together.
    Yep, 20 yr ago before you ask.
     
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  11. Wayne the Punk

    Wayne the Punk Well-Known Member

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    I got divorced 25 years ago, so will never marry again, this was just 2 of us together, well not anymore
     
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    Sorry to hear that Wayne, hope everything gets sorted as smoothly as possible
     
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  13. Wayne the Punk

    Wayne the Punk Well-Known Member

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    Just wish it was all done and I was out of it, I get custody of at least 2 of the dogs :)
     
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    If you want a silver lining, at least she can't claim half the winnings off you.
    Just make sure that you win once everything is finalised :emoticon-0138-think
    Hope things work our for you both, not nice, but hopefully everything remains amicable.
     
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    gelders pie Well-Known Member

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    Hope you are sorted soon. Even the darkest hour only has 60 minutes. Obviously this will be more than an hour, but things pass , so look forward to a new chapter when it's over.
     
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  16. Wayne the Punk

    Wayne the Punk Well-Known Member

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    We will split it, we have flare ups, but its ok, sort of
     
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    OldNewtown Well-Known Member

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    Well that's good at least
    You both sound grounded.
    Hope things work out.
     
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  18. Wayne the Punk

    Wayne the Punk Well-Known Member

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    Its darkest and coldest just before the dawn, I will get through this, no bother, and thank you and everyone else for all the nice comments
     
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    Just needed to let it out somewhere
     
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    Though things may seem a little uncertain now try and focus on the positives. All the decisions you make now are to your benefit and you don't have to take into consideration keeping someone happy.
    Keep going it will be better.
     
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