Now then Shields, that's interesting because I agree 100%, I have someone close going through it right now. At the time you feel like your world has ended, will never smile again but slowly you come out the other end and, sunshine and you wonder what the fuss was about.
Only in my youth and I never let it happen twice!! My youngest went through it a few months back and that was harder for me than going through it myself. The thing is she is now back with the bloke that did it to her - I haven't seen him since it happened but he's due to come round next week, What am I meant to do: A - Knock him out for putting her through all this B - Blank him, that way I won't put my foot in it and tell him what I really think C - Tell him what I really think - holding nothing back D - Be nice to him and pretend like nothing has happened. Difficult times!!
Its a bastard and yes it hurts more when its your kids.You have to try and be nice, for your daughters sake
Strangely, that is my least favoured option!!!! You are, of course, right - I should be grown up about these things.
This is the right answer , but also let the twat know that if he does it to her again , you'll mangle him. Without the daughter knowing of course.
As the sayin goes - "A son is a son till he takes a wife, but a daughter is a daughter the whole of your life" .
Defo C first, followed by a good A followed by the D. I have a 20 year old daughter and if it ever happened to her then I think this would be my course of action
I laid my soul in front of you I tied myself to the railroad tracks You refused my point of view Then diluted all my facts You won it, you broke it You held it to choke it You?re pulling my heart Out from under You won it, you broke it You held it to choke it You?re pulling my heart Out from under me I gave you all I had inside And every chance to tell the truth My faith in you has been denied But forced a smile in spite of you You won it, you broke it You held it to choke it You?re pulling my heart Out from under You won it, you broke it You held it to choke it You?re pulling my heart Out from under me Me. Me. Yeah out from under Me. Me. Me. Yeah out from under You won it, you broke it You held it to choke it You?re pulling my heart Out from under You won it, you broke it You held it to choke it You?re pulling my heart Out from under You won it, you broke it You held it to choke it You?re pulling my heart Out from under m ............................. Or just drive a wooden stake through it
Chin the bastard .............if your daughter loves you, she will know your only looking out for her and that anyone messing with her has you to deal with
If it hadn't have happened I would never have met my wife, become a dad to 2 great lads and a granda (another grandchild on the way)