Cheryl (( who used to be Cole )), seems to have found an answer to her anxiety. Having a baby has changed her perspective in life ! As fans of The Gills, I think I know how she feels - I certainly have anxiety about our future. I can see the merits in creating new life -- new fans for the future (( if we still have any -- fans or future )). I can also see an argument that time spent in procreational activity will be much more enjoyable than going to see The Gills - where it just seems that my senses have been as fudged **as grumpygit's statistics................ as for Cheryl - she didn't have to pay a 'shrink' to get treatment - I'm sure if she had asked me nicely, we could have thought of a therapy that could have saved us both time and money on Saturday afternoons. ** - it's not a swear word - (but -you know what I really mean )