Anger Management: here to help

It seems to me that quite a few people on here have anger management issues and heaven knows, we are awash here with quite a few Mr Grumpypants.

It is easy for some of us to be amused at the angry outbursts on here, which seem to be brought on by so many things. Often the triggers may seem trivial to others, but very real for those caught up in a loop of directed anger based on emotional non-wellbeing. We need to better understand how those emotions flare up, we need to listen and to ask some of our angry folk to share a troubled life in a non-judgemental environment such as on here, so you can be better understood by all and to change this world into one that nurtures and cares for you. We all have the capacity for much love and deep down we all want to be loved, so let down your protective preserve, lower your emotional shield and help us help you towards positive emotions, a growth mindset and a will to get along just that little bit better with those around us

It's time we shared, something like an intervention too, so we can help some of our members on the road to recovery

So, who is going to be first? Go ahead ...and thank's for sharing

 

I would love to participate, however, as I am already the master of my emotions I feel I have nothing to contribute and I will kick anybodys **** in who says otherwise.

 

So why do you have such inner conflict, were you abused as a child?

 

Shameless
YOU stated that some of the emotional triggers of others may seem trivial to those 'unaffected'. Each persons reason for their emotion is personal, and not necessarily common to another - hence a lack of understanding by the rest of us. It doesn't help that we have a society that, in many ways, doesn't care for the misery of anyone else.
We may have our own grievances - and, in our turn, we can't understand why others do not see the gravity of our situation. Yet this same lack of understanding or caring is something of which we ALL can be guilty in our failure to have sympathy for others. We have become very selfish and have very little time for the anxieties of our neighbour. Those who are not selfish are often apathetic - because they are too lazy to 'give a ****' - but then moan ( if they can be bothered ) when things go wrong for them.
Those of us whom you call 'Grumpypants' are often people who are passionate for their cause - and whose energies to achieve their ambitions, often are fighting, not for their own good, but for the common good of those who would have genuine grievances and reasons for complaint if the 'grumpypants' of this world were not around to make a positive 'difference' for the lives of others.
One of my pet 'hates' is injustice - often unrelated to anything that has a personal bearing on my wellbeing - but it doesn't stop me from being vocal for the benefit of others who may be too meek to stand up for their rights. I can't always win - but my principle is that I may not be blessed with good looks - but do have some brains. I am not a **** - but if you choose to treat me as such I will show you that I will not tolerate the situation. If you persist to treat me as a **** - do not be surprised if I eventually act like a **** - you will have no reason to be disappointed and complain. This philosophy probably sums up a lot of things in our lives............... but we must not let apathy rule.

 

So, tell me about your first sexual encounter - do share

 

I was raped by her - and just to make certain of what was happening, I made sure that she raped me again a few minutes later.

 

^^ nothing to be ashamed of, keep telling yourself: its not your fault

 

I didn't say I was ashamed - I enjoyed it - and have been raped plenty more times (thankyou)

 

There, there, dear. It's only the interweb. The angry men aren't real you know (at least I ****ing hope they're not).

 

It's quite simple, really. I just hate every ****. They don't know it though

 

Despite what I sometimes say - I do try to be nice to people I will admit it's a lot harder work than hating everybody - because the more you are nice to people - the more they 'put on you' - what do you do ? Do you remain being nice - and being taken further for granted ? or do you say "enough" and have them think that you was a **** all along - might as well be a **** in the first place I hear you say - but don't you miss 'the love' when people are nice to each other ?

 

Yer over complicating it. Am just biding my time until I go on my rampage. They'll never see it coming.

"He was such a nice well mannered man. The last person you would expect to do such a terrible thing"

 

**** off ****face.

 

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There, you said it. We need to fill the world with peace, love and the inner harmony that comes from a sense of belonging

As for you, it's a quick trip to the naughty boy step

 

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