It's not a lack of balls, I've asked her before and we've been out before, but things are complicated between us. Hence, I thought a fellow female might be able to aid things somewhat.
I mean fellow to her, not fellow to me. Obviously. You realise I am no way certain this will work? But should I be pessimistic and negative, or should I try to be positive and hopeful?
And therein lies a chunk of your problem on this front, PL. You find a woman you "love" (it took me six months to fall in "love" with any woman, often much longer - a year in the case of the wonderful and perfect Mrs Vin) then you ask for advice. We give it. You ignore it (as you are doing here). It all goes wrong. Repeat. I've even had almost exactly the same conversation regarding your asking for and ignoring advice with you previously. I seem to recall you took offence then as well. Even that part repeats... It all feels like self referencing computer code. However, I'm repeating my advice expecting you to do something different, so, "Waiter! Strait jacket for me, please." Vin
I used to be really optimistic but when bad things happen to you over and over and over again you get worn down and there is no enthusiasm left. I don't trust anybody, just think every guy is out to get me now. NEGATIVE NEGATIVE NEGATIVE ...it does take over all your thoughts.
Hi Jen, Please come along to the talk. My only motive is that I know it'll help you. I'll even give you a lift to Bournemouth so you can hear it sooner rather than later. Vin
