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"Done one" threads for a bereavement

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  1. DMD

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    There's been a couple of "xxx* had done one" when someone has died. I notice some people have commented that it's disrespectful and should be "RIP" or some such.

    I tend to agree that it's not the best thread heading for such things. What do others think?




    *Who'll be the first to ask when did xxx die? :cheesy:
     
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  2. Quill

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    When did xxx die?






    I can see why it would be disrespectful, but it doesn't personally bother me.
     
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  3. Amin Yapusi

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    I think a bereavement should be <so & so> meets the baker.

    Implying clearly that they're brown bread.
     
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  4. Mr Hatem

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    I agree it is disrespectful when someone dies. "RIP" is much better.
     
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  5. Kempton

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    It does sound disrespectful, but i'm sure APM never meant it that way.
     
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  6. rovertiger

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    I'm at a family funeral on Wednesday so it's a bit close to home, but saying that, it doesn't really bother me about the ''done one'' titles.

    Although obviously some do which is their right.
     
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  7. DMD

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    Fair enough, I just wondered. So far it seems 'prefer not, but not fussed' is about the consensus.
     
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  8. City1904

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    I would say it doesn't bother me but quite a lot of people will get it confused as we use that for managers and players leaving etc...
     
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  9. lewisc29

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    I think it can be perceived as disrespectful. Personally, I see it as a little tongue in cheek when ever anybody leaves etc. It doesn't bother me too much, but I understand why it could bother someone.
     
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  10. Amin Yapusi

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    You'd agree that differentiating a sacking etc. and a death by having "xxxx done one" and "xxxx meets the baker" is the way forward then?
     
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  11. Chazz Rheinhold

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    Oh he did kempton. Utter **** and this board could do without his sort. He should just do one in a non deadly way <nahnah>
     
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  12. ElTigre

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    To say someone "has done one" does has odd overtones as if it's self-inflicted like shooting oneself in the foot. For me it's inappropriate when someone dies.
     
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  13. andy payton's mullet

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    Apologies if I offended anyone. Apart from Chazz who I aim to offend <whistle>
     
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  14. Kempton

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    Once again peace is restored to the 606er family :cheesy:
     
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  15. tigercity

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    "done one" refers quitting in my parlence, "up the road" for a sacking and RIP for a death.
     
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  16. WhittlingStick

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    it doesnt bother me and probably wont bother me unless its someone close to me , so i find it quite unlikely to ever bother me .

    Im of the opinion that its as sad for me that Frank in Ipswich has done one ,as it is some famous Frank actor doing one . Now if its my Uncle Frank then thats maybe a different matter
    and in this respect i dont expect anyone who dont know who is is/was to give a rats .
     
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  17. Cortez91

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    Let's just agree then...

    "done one" when somebody leaves a club

    "R.I.P" when somebody dies.
     
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  18. Chazz Rheinhold

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    youve got me worried about your uncle Frank now
     
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  19. HHH

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    When I finally meet the baker I'd rather it be said I've done one.

    Besides, there'll be no resting in peace for me. I'll be firmly ensconced in me harem, ball deep in an early 90s Winona Ryder.
     
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  20. Dr.Stanley O'Google, HCFC

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    [video=youtube;UD6_Kez8rlY]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UD6_Kez8rlY[/video]
     
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