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  1. C19RK73

    C19RK73 Red & White army!

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    Just learnt that a young girl (14yrs old) from whitworth park school took her own life on friday due to bullying and another today from redhouse comp for the same reason.

    Why do children or people in general feel the need to bully others?

    I was subjected to bullying when we moved back to Sunderland at Thornhill school the worst was when i was told i was going to get my head kicked in after the 6 weeks holidays - a great 6 weeks that was.
     
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  2. Bud the wonder horse

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    Sorry, ot ot! What year did you leave Thornhill? I was there '90 to '95. Was a good school back then. I hope the bullying didn't spoil your memories of it.
     
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  3. Blunham Mackem

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    I left Thornhill in 78. Had a decent rep then though I've heard it's gone down hill since.

    I wonder how many more on here went to Thorny?
     
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  4. C19RK73

    C19RK73 Red & White army!

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    i left in 91 mate, its a **** tip now, muslims, the white kids have a map of which way is safe to walk home, the playground is segregated and there is a police presence.

    you must be the same age as my sister?

    my school memories are sound marra
     
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    They are cowards mate & tend to stick together in their little gangs.
    I had bullying at school by a lad & his gang. One time I was visiting my granny & I saw the bastard on his own.
    I kicked seven shades of **** out of him that day & I never got any more trouble. Not only that but because his reputation was shot, his gang dropped him.

    A few years later after we left school I saw him in Marlborough Crescent bus station in Newcastle & I gave him another twatting just for the fun of it.
    That's what bullies are, cowardly scumbags.
     
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    WHAT??? Are you serious?
     
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  7. C19RK73

    C19RK73 Red & White army!

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    that never amount to anything marra

    Spoke to my mate yesterday, said recruitment is imminent for the battery shop, will give me a heads up as i will you
     
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    straight up mate, plagued with them
     
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  9. Bud the wonder horse

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    Yes, I too have heard there are racial issues there now. The ratio has changed substantially and it's not a nice place anymore.

    I'm 34 mate. Understand you probably dont want to post your sister's name on a footy forum!
     
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  10. Blunham Mackem

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    Not sure what you mean by the "plagued with them". I was more shocked about the segregated school yard and the police presence!
     
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  11. Brian Storm

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    Parents of the bullies need to be held accountable for their children's actions. It's their job to teach their children the morals of life. I also think the schools should be equally accountable as they have a Duty of care to all children at their schools. They've got no control of bullying so failing in their duty of care.

    I also feel that a lot of parents don't monitor their children's internet activity adequately.

    Society is ****ed up. It's disgusting.
     
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    Jemma, i think she was the only jemma there mate tbh, no worries with that mate, my cousin rackstraw was in the same year aswel i think

    sis posts on here on the odd occassion "delilah"
     
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    Cheers marra.
     
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    meaning there are more muslims than our own, plagued meaning that the authorities have had to step in, not to specify muslims as a problem, just that any problem that requires police presence is a plague
     
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    Beany? (Steve). He was a very good mate of mine. Does his dad still work for the club (if it's the same fella)?
     
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    the very same marra, lives in liverpool now, uncle K doesnt work for the club anymore, fully retired now, small world :D
     
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    I was bullied as a 5 year old when we moved to St Neots near Cambridge. At one point i had a skipping rope wrapped round my neck with 2 lads either side pulling it. Id pay money to be able to meet these lads now!
     
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    Small world indeed <cheers>

    Until recently, I lived in the next street. I also go to the same snooker club as K, just along the road.
     
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    C19RK73 Red & White army!

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    I had a situation once when a newby at school in lowestoft decided to bring half the school to my house on a saturday as i was regarded as a top lad and he saw fit to try and diss me to put himself on the ladder, he offered me out in our back lane, i tried reasoning with him, he would not back down.

    So I ran in the house, put on my kung Fu uniform and picked up my nunchuks, my gran (who lived with us) stopped me and asked what i was doing, i explained the above and she let me go.

    I came out and he said "no weapons" I said ok then and threw them in the garden shouting "come on then" He ran off! incidently he went to another school after that!
     
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  20. Teessidemackem

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    Sounds about right mate. Bullies are cowards deep down when they on their own. They hang around in a gang to back up their insecurities, but as the O/P says it can cause kids to end their lives. A lad at my school got caught trying to hang himself due to bullying. Why? Because his dad died when he was a young lad so his mam struggled to buy him the latest clothes. ?
     
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