Phew, that was a story and a half. Many thanks Deon for that insight into your father's life you certainly have his talent for writing. I hope all goes as you wish for Brix's funeral. I will do my best to come over for the drink up and raise a drink in Dave's honor.
Count me in for the drink. I don't post much but read everyday. Brixton had a calm authority that made this forum what it is. I'm shocked how much this news affected me today. Reading about his life it is obvious that he was a selfless individual who stood against bigotry and stood up for those less fortunate than himself. My heartfelt condolences to the family. Joe
That was a great read Deon, thank you. It's a fascinating account of the life of one of the world's good men. I never met your old man, but I have no doubt he was firmly part of that category - he probably invented it. That's quite a life he lived and I guess circumstances like that will either make or break the man. Brix always struck me as an incredibly sorted bloke, aware of everything around him, always listening, probably able to deal with any situation life might throw his way. I'm not remotely surprised to learn that his significant others always came before him. The man I should have made the effort to meet turns out to tick every box I'd ticked on his behalf and so many more. Your dad's passing has truly saddened me, so much more than is logical. Like I said, we never met, but I thought of him as a mate. We had some good exchanges on the board, more often than not about life, rather than QPR. I got home late from work yesterday and my wife was sitting watching tv. She immediately knew something was wrong and I told her. Couldn't hold back the tears. It nearly got her as well, which is saying something given the way she thinks I spend too much time on here with my QPR buddies. Not many regrets in my life, but not once meeting him is one. Without a shadow of doubt, I'll be there for the toast to the life of our skipper when the time comes about. Until then, he will rarely be far from my thoughts. Incredible to say that about someone I've never met, but true. I wish for you, your ma and your missus a peaceful time ahead, my thoughts are with you. I'm sorry this has happened. Rob.
A fascinating and poetically written piece that, Deon. Well done, you're a credit to the old man. The Man Called Brix will never be far from my thoughts, especially when I come on this board or whenever I see a minicab roundel. A great man and a great loss. Thank you Dave/Brix.
Me too Stainsy, you know where am that last weekend! Roller says that if it was just you and Roller drinking to Brix, you'd be blubbering...what do you think I will be doing!!! I am not too good at the moment writing this.... Also we ought to let the club know....something in the program, on the board. Just to note the passing of a loyal R and a great man!
I was thinking the same about a tribute in the programme Beth, does anyone more efficient in these matters want to organise it ?? (Talking to my mates who you met last time, I realised where you will be that weekend, remember to look out for the QPR flag on the campsite ) And can someone PLEASE answer me a question that I kept meaning to ask Brix himself but never got round to it......it's probably very obvious to some but what the bloody hell are those numbers on his sig meant to mean ??
Respect. I have yet to make any of the 606 meet ups but I will definitely try to make one in honour of this man. Hopefully a date and location will be posted over the summer.
I was originally thinking that the first home match of the season was the logical time for a toast to Brixton, but on reflection that is very early in August and some people will be on holiday. I would suggest that we wait until the fixtures are announced, liaise with whichever IrishRs or other Overseas Hoops who want to try to get over for the match and pick a date that suits as many as possible. I will try to get the club to put something in the programme for the same match, I'm very confident about being able to do that. My only concern is finding a pub with the capacity we look like needing, I hope David knew how much he meant to so many people.
Blimey. What to say? On Wednesday it'll be a year since my Mum died. Um.. I relate to what Woody said, exactly. Brix was someone I've never met yet I'm very upset that he is no longer here. Deon.. what you have written was beautiful. A tribute to your Dad. Thank you. I will do all I can to meet up for the drinks for your Dad. (Probably a stupid random thought. We have a couple of regular posters serving a ban.. can they be excused and allowed to post on this thread?)
Well said Pete, I was actually going to post something similar. I'm sure in similar circumstances Brix would've been the first to allow them post...
Really moving piece Deon. Your Dad was truely a great man and hugely respected, he would be proud of you.
Seconded. As an adopted boy myself I think Barnardos is a very deserving charity. RIP to BrixtonR. My thoughts are with his family.
Will be there in spirit; if there's another chance to catch up in early November - a repeat performance - I'm in.
Look not entirely sure...but it was a countdown of the points he thought we needed from the games to get to safety, over march it was in the + area, from wigan onwards it went negative, finished about -7 I think. Can anyone confirm that?
What a fantastic, honest, and heartwarming tribute to Brix, Barnardos is a wonderful charity, I will gladly make a donation.
Deon............many, many thanks for taking the time to write that wonderful tribute to your Dad. A fascinating read and explains what made David the man I was lucky enough to meet. My very best wishes to you, your Mum Pat and all your family. As for the drink......................I'll do whatever I can to make it. I also am away at the beginning of August!!
