Has anyone else got older relatives who were casually bigoted? Not nasty people necessarily, just inherently racist. I remember, as a kid, I used to go to my maternal grandparents house while my mum went shopping/work/whatever. When I used to ask "Where's my my mum?" their stock response was "She's run off with a black man". As if it was a fantastical idea that a white woman should elope with an Afro-Caribbean. Having spoken to friends, it appears that this was a common saying at the time. Plus there's my uncle, who would always say stuff like "this fella at work, he's a paki/wog/chink, but he's alright", as though we would automatically assume that anyone of a different ethnicity woul be somehow inferior. Discuss.
I heard that regularly. My grandfather used to own a parrot that called the next door neighbours fenian bastards, if that counts. Pretty sure he hated darkies as well.
At school a standard taunt was "I'm telling, you're smelling, you went to a black man's wedding". My gran wasn't racist but she was extremely xenophobic especially about the French and Germans.
My nan (quite a tolerant, broad minded woman) used to say of anyone who was even slightly dark skinned, "he's got a touch of the tar brush in him, that one."
I remember watching a documentary about the fifties, when many guesthouses would have a sign in the window declaring "No blacks, no Irish"
Racism is another word for honesty. I tend to find 'racists' just speak their minds more than most. They call a spade a spade.
In my experience with racists it's the complete opposite they are ill educated nonces. Making untrue stereotypes on people. Odd.
My mum used to send me to the local corner shop "run down to the pakis n get some milk"... It was ran by indians. It was still known as the pakis when whitey bought it! My gran called black people gollywogs...