Not really.
Tonda is a young and very inexperienced human being. He is 33 FFS, from a different culture (that what he has done isn’t frowned upon). If this was my son (he is 3 years younger than my daughter) in a foreign land (she lives abroad), I would point out to him what he has done and get him to be the bigger person and learn from it to make him stronger.
From a manager point of view he has maybe let himself down with the bullying, but is it bullying or him asking in his way (maybe trying to make light of it as he is insecure). I don’t buy in to the he is evil narrative.
My decision making in my early 30s is totally different than now.
From a coaching point of view he may be one of the best we have ever had. His potential is enormous and maybe if we try to help him through this he will have loyalty to us to make up for the clusterfuck of his doing.
I’ll also add that with out Boro being twats and the relentless media this would have been treated as what it was. A minor breach.
Edit: also after reading the EFL report I am actually more angry with Parsons for the handling of it. IMO the expulsion is down to him and his reactions not the crime Tonda and committed.
Not really.
Tonda is a young and very inexperienced human being. He is 33 FFS, from a different culture (that what he has done isn’t frowned upon). If this was my son (he is 3 years younger than my daughter) in a foreign land (she lives abroad), I would point out to him what he has done and get him to be the bigger person and learn from it to make him stronger.
From a manager point of view he has maybe let himself down with the bullying, but is it bullying or him asking in his way (maybe trying to make light of it as he is insecure). I don’t buy in to the he is evil narrative.
My decision making in my early 30s is totally different than now.
From a coaching point of view he may be one of the best we have ever had. His potential is enormous and maybe if we try to help him through this he will have loyalty to us to make up for the clusterfuck of his doing.
I’ll also add that with out Boro being twats and the relentless media this would have been treated as what it was. A minor breach.
Edit: also after reading the EFL report I am actually more angry with Parsons for the handling of it. IMO the expulsion is down to him and his reactions not the crime Tonda