There is a lot going on for you at the moment Becs, sometimes life throws curved balls and presents problems that we find difficult to navigate. You appear to be a very astute person so you will know all about prioritising and gradually working your way though your issues. You will also know that moral support is here if you need it, just reach out Hopefully everything gets sorted soon, take care
Bloody hell becs, that’s an awful lot to be dealing with all at the same time. All I can offer is what was suggested to a now departed mate when he had a similar (albeit not as all encompassing as yours seems to be) situation to yours. The priority has to be your health, if you can get that sorted the other things can be sorted as well. Others have suggested that you may be able to claim some assistance for it. Is there a GP/Health Professional who can point you in the right direction ? My mate was advised to deal with things in a sort of bite size priority order, so in your case it could be health, then the immediate practical implications of sorting your heating and car as you will need to have those both working properly. Hope things turn for the better for you soon.
That is really tough @becs. Hopefully even writing it down has helped. There are not as many on here but are very supportive - I agree RTG can be supportive as it was or me. Just keep reaching out on here - someone will always respond
No I've looked into it but there's nothing. There's PIP but it asks things like do you need help getting washed and do you need help cooking food. I can manage doing stuff like that so I'd not score enough points to claim anything. If I had a bit extra coming in from somewhere, I wouldn't need to work as many hours per week and that would help a lot. My job is physical and involves heavy lifting at times. I'm also looking for a work from home desk job as I think that would help both my health and my work/life balance.
In my low informed-knowledge opinion the system needs adjusting to help those like yourself who are grafting despite health problems. Ease the load a bit. The home desk job sounds good. Maybe a mix of home and office if the social side of work is something you enjoy.
