I'm in two minds about online gift lists for weddings/christenings etc. On one hand, the older side of me finds it a bit rude as you're basically asking for something, and I'd always just hand over a brown envelope with cash in instead. But on the other hand, I do see that you're at least buying something that is wanted/needed and will be used, rather than re-gifted, stored in the loft or sold on eBay, so not wasting your money. Can't make up my mind. I guess if it is a young couple who need stuff for a new home, it's fair enough. If you're in your fifties and on your third marriage, a bit of a piss take.
