I went through a disinterested in Christmas phase. As OLM said having Grandkids does bring the magic back. One’s just turned 5 and is massively into it this year. He’s believing in Santa (not my fault. I’ve been very clear it’s a Pagan festival celebrating the days starting to get longer & lighter again) so we took him to my Mum’s as the Roundtable Santa Sleigh was going past. He understands that there are ‘fake’ ones though. Picked him up to go Him “Will it be the real Santa or a fake Santa like in shops?” Me “I’m not sure. Probably the real one” Him “Hmm…I’ll look and see” Me “How will you know?” Him “…Cos fake Santa’s have string on their ears holding their beard on” Me “Ahhh…oh well we’ll have to see won’t we” Turns out it was the real one after all, which was good news. 2 kids and their partners, and 4 grandkids at ours with us over Christmas. It’ll be chaos but I’m happy with that.
We've had a lot of crap this year so it's hard to muster enthusiasm - we're not down on Christmas as such just drained, I think.
I loved it,it was my sweet of choice and paved the way for my love of Golden Virginia/Amber Leaf/Drum/Old Holborn and Cutters Choice. Cough,Splutter...
Oh FFS!!! Haven't had a great year myself with one thing and another but I stick to the old adage 'there's always someone worse off,with bigger problems than myself'..It's extremely apt.
No need to feel like you should be up for it. Just use it as an opportunity to do what you want to do
Two of our grandkids are in Spain… missing them loads at this time of year ( crying and broken hearted emojis ) mind you we still have 3 and two step grandkids in Hull so all is not lost ( laughing emoji )
I have an emoji or two spare if you'd like one. . . Oh sorry, I forgot the antipodean one, . The views expressed in my posts are not necessarily mine.