A good ride? To be honest, for a man it doesn't take much for a woman to satisfy as we come without too much outside effort. But, for me, it's mainly about what I can do. I will not be happy unless I have satisfied my lady To be honest, my main enjoyment is orally pleasuring my mrs. You really need to take your time and make an evening of it. I have spent many a night giving the enemy so much joy that she is too exhausted to satisfy me but I will be the one who says there is no need. There's nothing more satisfying than satisfying others.