Boy - the first time my new partner, now of six years, brought me to her former husband's family reunion (he died 2014) her brother-in-law was heard to say about us, "I see she's bought her 'Boy Toy' along with her" - I guess not too bad at almost 70 being labelled as a "stud"! The same guy 37 years earlier on meeting her for the first time was heard to say to his wife (my partner secretly witnessed this), "I don't see what my brother (he was quite intellectual) sees in her, I guess she must be good in bed! Well, I'm very happy to say, she is, a former hippy with the philosophy of "go in peace, do no harm" and "love the one that you are with", well I'm very pleased to say that guy is me!