Wishi gone?

Just seen this as her signature.

Permanently left this **** hole. Up yours. I won't miss you, either.

Is this new,has she buggered off after the spat with RHC and some of the other members comments?

 

I think so. I tried to pm her and it wouldn't send. She may come back when she cools off.

 

Lol

 

Hopefully just a "temporary" permanently gone. She would be missed.

 

Arsed

 

For what it's worth, her negativity came at a bad time for me having just been diagnosed with a stroke, on the back of a whole load of other ****. We all know we're not playing well at the moment, FFS. Just give the incessant moaning a miss.

 

No need to explain yourself mate, we know. Plus, a few of us stood up for you too

 

I missed that and I'm usually so even handed when it comes to Wishi, given the chance I'm sure I would have de-escalated the situation.

 

Hope you're on the mend mate.

 

( Think it was in the Bournemouth match thread)

 

It definitely needed your calm objectivity and non-violent communication skills.

 

I actually behaved for once (sort of) but you weighing in might have effected my contribution...

 

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I thought so too. She certainly needed it on here sometimes, merging her threads comes to mind

 

Yes, she was frequently targeted for a laugh but she seemed to take it in stride.

 

I think she was targeted because if we lost a game she'd be here moaning and if we won, nowhere to be seen. That wasn't always the case but it was the general rule.

 

I wouldn't say "targeted" as such. We all accept that if we make a public comment then others are entitled to address it.
If someone repeatedly makes comments that others disagree with then it may seem like they're being got at, but it isn't personal.
Though good-natured banter can sometimes be difficult to identify, most of us have been on here long enough for our own posting styles to be understood and I think it only rarely spills over into genuine hostility.
Sometimes I will stay off for a while after a bad performance just because constant recrimination isn't my thing and I don't want to be drawn into it.
To be serious for a moment - perhaps constant complaining triggers some things from the past that I'd rather not revisit.

When it comes to bad performances, I get disappointed but I rarely get angry - I think that's the difference. I don't take it as a personal insult from the players. The only thing that does rile me is when someone is clearly not making the effort.

 

I agree and in general she wasn't targeted or singled out by most, some just disagreed and had that conversation which is the point of the place I suppose. I did target her for the reasons I stated in my last post. It is something that annoys me. If you are on here win or lose and can praise when going well and want to be critical when it isn't I get that and we can have a conversation.

 

You see it all on forums like this. Opposition fans who are never around when things are going well but turn up for a bit of goading when things aren't going so well; a team's own fans who participate in general but stay away when things aren't going well; fans who keep posting regardless of results. Wishi is the exception to the above 'rules'.

I never understood why some people wanted to call out those who disappeared after a poor result. It's the most natural thing in the world to not want to get involved in what could be collective misery.