Just remember that your lads know that you're they're dad. No matter where they are or who they're with they know who you are and they love you
Well that's my lads gone now and I have the pleasure of picking which out of 4 walls to stare at for the next few hours till I call it a night. You never know what's round the corner, 8 months ago I was getting engaged and now this. I wont ever take life for granted ever ever again. Roll on Boxing day so I can get my lads back.
When I had christmas without my two eldest daughters, I just focused on how much fun we would have when I got to see them, not the greatest advice ever but it helped me those years ago
Think to the saying ' there is always someone worse off than you ' well just consider the poor soul that has no one worse off than him.
Hiya Teessidemackem hope you’re having a good day. Who knows what’s around the corner! Onwards and upwards eh? Take care and Keep the Faith
Hi Tees. No one can really understand how you're feeling, some lovely advice has been given by good lads on here. If someone could give anyone the magic fix of how to keep their chin up, and it work, they'd be millionaires over night. Truth is mate, you have so much going for you but at the minute, you're natural want to see your boys is well..... natural. So not seeing your lads (most important part of your life) is naturally overshadowing all the other good stuff you have in your life and that's..... natural. You can't fight nature mate, so it's natural you feel the way you do. 8 months ago is a speck in time ago, so I'm not surprised you feel like "WTF!"? Christmases always highlight other events. But all I'll say is this, you'll get there mate. your boys need their Dad as much as you need them, it's unconditional... it's natural. Merry Christmas mate.
Hi mate you haven’t much longer to wait to see the lads, they’ll be looking forward just as much to see you as you are to see them, remember that , have a cracking day when they arrive and love them to bits
Tees, half way there ! Thinking now about that moment tomorrow morning and then beyond - it’s going to be so good
Today has been tough but I’ve seen the kids and they’re really happy, that’s all that matters to me. I’ll be picking the lad up early doors for the match tomorrow… Ha’way the lads!!!!
Hi @Teessidemackem hope things are on the up and your boys are back. Have a good time and don't forget to talk if you need to.
Hi Tees, belated best wishes. Life is a journey of ups and downs, good times, bad times. With a little determination you can make small steps towards a brighter future. One thing you should take from Not606 is the strength of the poster well wishing you to pull through this awful downside right now.
