And probably gona get arrested soon. Im a loose connon and it will be for the best. Im not in a good place at the mo so ill keep riding the journey till i come to an abrupt end. Thankyou please goodnight x
Looking back through this place, you're clearly a very popular lad with a bonny pair of young lads. Just put yourself in your lads place right now though. What would you expect them to want from you right now? Nothing more than your love for them. Don't do anything daft mate. Just be there for them. They wouldn't be impressed by you being a loose cannon right now. But you biting on every bullet necessary to stand by them when the goings tough, they'll see that for themselves and they'll love and respect every second of your presence that decision brought them. I've been where you are right now. Stay calm. Stay loose and stay close to them. When your lads are my lads age they'll be as close to you as my lads are to me. One of my lads just sent me a text about an hour ago. Fancy a pint tomorrow dad? What he means is do I fancy driving up to his tomorrow, not him coming down to me. But yeh. You bet I do. See the bigger, longer picture mate. And if you've an old man, an older brother, grand dad, uncle or mate, they've been there as well. Confide in them. Talking helps mate. Good luck and god bless mate.
Absolutely agree with every word (except the God bless. Don't believe in God) Tees you're well thought of on here and have family who I reckon must care for you. Not in a good place but I hope you find one quickly.
Yes he is. Tees has been with us the whole time. There's a whole bunch who have spent the last 6 years on here together. We may still argue like **** among each other at times, we all know a lot about each other. Have laugh and fight in equal measures. People like Tees have been the foundation of the forum. Never meet the him at a McDonalds. The wacky git.
As one of your closest friends on here mate you need to put the drink down and have a word with yourself. Start thinking about those lads. Your future doesn't include your ex but it does include those boys, so stop getting pissed up and start planning your future with them. Might i surgest you stop drinking, sort your diet out for training and start training like you're preparing for a fight, It will focus you and channal your anger without booze escalating it beyond a manageable level. You need some fresh life targets mate, **** her(but respect her), you've got you and the boys to think about now. Why don't you have a blast at MMA? Try and go pro? These massive changes in your life doesn't have to be your undoing, I let it be my undoing when I go divorced and i pissed away some of my best years on stewing over her. These changes can be the making of you.
This is one of the best posts i've read...Good solid sound advice and as it come from a mate will have more gravitas. Good luck Tees. be strong, your kids need you.
I just popped on this board for a nosey and came across this thread. I know I don't know you but stay strong and stay off the alcohol it might seem like the answer now but you will regret it later Feel free to tell me I'm a **** and to **** off especially if it makes you feel better
You ever want another catch up in the 'Worm' marra, just give me a shout & we'll have a good natter. I thoroughly enjoyed our last 'meet', you seemed a nice lad albeit with the usual demons many of us have!! There is some excellent advice in some of the above posts... and remember... 'it's good to talk' !! Keep smiling, and please take me up on my offer
Hey up Tees lad, how you feeling today mate. Hope you didn't do out daft and followed some sound advice from other posters
I echo this mate. Check in will ya so you we know you're ok. I'd text you but can't afford to run a mobile at the moment. Let us know you're ok @Teessidemakem
I'm sure I would have heard something from his mum or family if anything was seriously wrong and if he wanted me too, then I would let you lads know, after all I am his dad. The lads in a bad place at the moment, lots of emotions and things to sort out for his and the boys future, he will get it right for everyone concerned. He has seen me go through this twice in the past as a young lad and hitting the drink was always my way too. He will be back to his best now, sober and giving his love to the boys. I am not being callous not commenting on his threads, I just know my son, he needs to let off steam and shout it out. He knows my my life for the last 8 years but I am sure if he needs me then he will ring.. you are all a great set of lads, he will appreciate your concern and hopefully laughing with you and at you soon..
If you speak to him will you give him my best? I promised him at the Boro game we'd do another match this season, but I really can't see me getting to another. I'm not very well and my outgoing are more than my incomings now so just can't afford it. Cheers Joe.
