It is if the visit is 'essential' ... picked up daughter from Cardiff Uni yesterday (term finished) then on down to mother-in-law who is wheelchair bound to do various jobs around her house ... fitted electric blinds in her kitchen, fixed leak above bay window and put up shelves in her adapted downstairs bedroom... we deliberately combined the two things ... plus we notified the local social care before coming ... they come in 5 times a day ... all approved and kosha ... but also a huge relief for the other half to see her mum, admittedly ...
We've taken it all very seriously coz the missus is in the highest vulnerability category... it has been hard on her not seeing her mum throughout but we wouldn't have risked it .. . the old girl is now doubled jabbed and we have all had the first one (apart from the youngest) ... even so we are keeping the old girl at a distance ... just in case
I personally wouldn't have gone to the lengths you did with getting approval and all that. People generally know what's right from wrong and can be sensible with it imo. Bet it's good for your other half to see her mum after all this time though.
The old girl has a double aneurysm on the brain ... one burst leaving her paralysed down the right side ... now gets around in an electric wheelchair... literally has a time bomb ticking in her noggin ... so every moment is precious for the missus. The old girl was in a semi coma for nigh on 12 months barely able to say words ... but the brain (and body) is a truly remarkable thing ... now has all her faculties back ... literally improved day by day until she is where she is now ... but if the other one goes that will be it.
My other half deals with the old girls affairs day by day so it wasn't a big deal ... we arranged the care package with the social services etc in the first place and the carers call us if they need more meds etc ...
You're OK. You can be a tit at times but we all can. I have a sneaky suspicion that you would step up to help out if it was ever required .. but I might not be the best judge, of course.
Not a big fan of religion. Too much pain and death involved. The pain and death is there pretty much to keep the plebs in order. Not a fan.
Don’t bother reading it that author is from the ‘Ahmediya’s’ who regard themselves as Muslims yet differ their beliefs from the Quran. So they are widely regarded as heretics. If You want to learn about the man with sources dating back to those people that were alive at the time, referenced etc then if ya want I can recommend a few books. That what you got is one of them subtle propoganda pamphlets. Basically what the ‘ahemdiya’s’ believe is that there was another prophet who came after Mohammed for Islam...we don’t believe that in any way with plenty proof. so with that being their base thought, their info could be mis leading for someone who is genuinely just interested in learning about the man who came with the orthodox Islam we are all aware of.
