It will be funny if one of your kids ends up topping themselves and when you're at their funeral you think to yourself 'remember when I told a teenager to slash their wrists on the internet? Gee, looks like that backfired'.
Not seen any of this, so can't comment on the validity of pens/red cards. But I have seen plenty of clear penalties not given as well as blatant red cards ignored in other games. But to a team who needs no help whatsoever, a red card and two pens? Utter ****e.