I don't cope well with women I care about, they send me off track and I lose focus very quickly. I'm not sure I'm made for relationships, or ever will be. Currently back on and off with the one I know is the love of my life but we can't seem to ever get it right. If someone could switch off all interest in that area is genuinely let them. Not saying I'd go the other way like, just not have any thoughts of that nature. It ****s me up all the time.
I'm the reverse. I'm a ****ing madman with a bird. Drink, drugs, fighting, falling into bad circles and all that. I was desperate to settle down from about 18 as I knew I need someone to pull my head in. Never worked that way until I met Mrs Smith. My world looks much ****ing better for it. Some click and some don't. No reflection on the individuals involved.
Kinda get the feeling if it hasn't worked after a few years, then it's probably not happening mate. Been there, done that. I'm much better and active in life without a woman, in every way. So I also get that bit about losing your focus. I've maintained all my life that I will never marry, I'm 33 now and I'm fairly confident that I'm going to see that through. I'm also selfish, very selfish. I won't make sacrifices for a relationship either, I like to do my own thing. I totally get where you are coming from.
I can't sustain anything in life, though. That includes women and relationships, I just can't do it. I'm way to difficult to live with, and I also really enjoy having my own space. I'm wise enough now not to completely rule anything out, but I really can't see that changing for me.
I'm guessing you have skipped past this thread? http://not606.com/threads/money-for-nothing-bets-for-free-6th-aug-2016.333648/page-4
Yeah i dont read his betting threads only the main betting one. Id rather pluck my eyeballs out with an ice cream scoop. So i avoid them.
Yeah it was a boring thread, so we gave it a helping hand this time. I thought it was a really good read, from start to finish.
Seems we are fairly similar mate. I've decided this is my last shot at it, i don't feel like I'll be losing out on life if I decide to not bother in future, I don't see any of the real 'coupley' things as owt I pine for in life.
Never again will I become emotionally involved with a woman. The last two I had I adored - they both ****ed off & left me. One had a good excuse - she died of cancer. The other one just got bored & tossed me aside like a wet sock. No, that's it, no more women.
Maybe you are adoring them to much, mate. I treat my lasses like absolute ****e but I can never get them to **** off. We should try and find some middle ground in this.
And there's no harm in admitting that. It's like a ****ing stigma that you need to be in a relationship and be out doing the couple things or your failing in life. I can think of nothing worse than going to my birds families parties. I'm so uncomfortable and bored by them. I'd rather sit in the house and bash the playstation. If I'm being completely honest.
I'm a lot like that mate, I stayed with a lass 6 years and it sucked the life out of me, I knew it wasn't forever but it became the norm and I just drifted along for 2-3 years before finally pulling the plug. This one is as close as I've ever been to genuine, but we just can't seem to get it on any kind of even keel. So, on that basis, why bother. FIFA 17 out in few weeks that'll be me, ha.
Well I thought they had - sadly not. It doesn't matter anymore because I'll just put up the barriers. I'll not give another woman the opportunity to hurt me again.
