Just sat pondering having a tab and a beer on me lonesome. A year or two,i did a thread on suicide. It was probably the most thought provoking thread i have ever read on this board. I was humbled by the replies. Then i read Billys SAFC hardmen. And the way we differ on views. What is hard? Not easy to word this one... Are you a hard man, physically or emotionally? Do you bottle things up then explode. Do you fight. Do you let fly sometimes? Or are you more of a non aggresive person. Do you sometimes have a blowout? Maybe im wording this wrong. I dont mean aggresive at home. But that could have a huge bearing on you outside. Do you see yourself as aggresive, non aggresive or inbetween? How many confrontations or fights have come your way? Yes im a nebby twat.
Not aggressive by nature, but when I blow I blow.. I will always do my best to resolve confrontation by non violent means, but I have probably had at least my fair share of physical confrontations over the years..
Some, but not most..I would say the majority have been in town with dickheads who couldn't take their drink..
I've never had a fight in my adult life! Can only remember one little scrap in junior school lol. So i'm not a violent aggressive individual. I bottle things up cos i'm a very private person but when i blow i do blow. And when i do, people who know me keep out my way for 5 minutes. And once i got it out my system i'm totally calm again. When i see lads scrapping in city centres on a weekend night out etc it amazes me how they get through life like that tbh.
I'm not a fighter of an aggressive person But my main problem is I'm not afraid of any one I'm not dafft enough to trade blows but will never run away
I was battered to a pulp when I was 16, my head was jumped on and my face cut open, by three lads, I was playing football with pals on a school field and they come out of nowhere. My face was bounced off a concrete pillar and that was the last I remember. There wasn't any revenge. It was the first time I'd been beat up properly. Few more times I've taken a kicking, I'm a bit of a cheeky bastard and I don't tend to keep my words to myself. You move on, get up and wounds heal, they become stories that's all. I don't consider myself a 'hard man' at all, I don't look hard and I don't ever get aggressive when drunk unless I have to defend myself. I know how to defend myself and I don't fear many people, certainly nobody based on size or build alone.
I got done in Weybridge. ****ing Weybridge. One if the poshest part of England. 2 days in hospital after (alledegly i nutted some twat and bust his nose) and a few bevvies. I was introduced to the grill of a range rover. **** knows i woke up in hospital.
I was blind sided in Bedford, wham! Right in the grid, knocked me for six. Took me about 3 days til I could walk straight again, that was some punch. Apparently I was calling his bird a fat mess for pushing in, in the kebab shop, doesn't sound like me.
Never been much into the fisticuffs. A few scrapes as any other kid but no more than that. Nee good now mind. Too little to fight & too owld to run. Screwed either way. Not averse to a ringside seat though when a pissed up loud mouthed arsehole gets a `shut the **** up` slap or two. "Aye, What are you going to do about it like?" Bang. Down. Carried out. I quite like them.
It can work both ways for me..Our lass hates it when I drink whiskey as she reckons I am very aggressive then, although I don't think I am. The worst I have ever been is when I was taking painkillers call Naproxin (when I was suffering with sciatica), and drinking alcohol at the same time which made me incredibly aggressive. It was my brother who is a qualified nurse who noticed the connection and looked up the side effects of the drug which explained everything. I have not taken them since.
I had a few fights in my teens but I was never very good at it. One of them was pretty bad and I've got a small scar going up from my top lip from where I got punched by someone who was wearing a ring. The worst thing about that one was that I had my best mate with me and he didn't step in to help whatsoever. I've never been one to aggro when I'm drunk but I've got a very short fuse at times so if I was going to get in a fight these days it'd be more likely to be sober in the middle of the day if someone pissed me off while I was in a bad mood.
I hope your taking something like Omrepazole with that RAW! Naproxen will **** your stomach up bad without it mate!
