no you wouldn't you just like to think you would. plus i won.. thanks for the fake melt set up... they all ****ed off and we killed tobes.
My Doctor says I need more fruit. So I have opened a decent Shiraz Barossa as I believe it takes a lot of grapes to make one bottle of wine.
I don't come in here often and this is a bit random but..... Took a bird I've been after for about a year out last night, she's a proper cracker looks wise and as I found out tonight a rather electric personality, thing is I've been casualy seeing another bird for about the last 2years, great girl great sex no reason not to officially be her partner, I met her around 6weeks after finishing a long term relationship (9years) and for me it was always just casual, I've been honest with her from day one about that, told her I don't want to be tied down, claimed, owned etc. Thing is I really fancy this other bird and after taking her out tonight I found out she and I have a lot in common, and a certain chemistry. My dilemma is the one I've been seeing knows I'm keen on the other (they don't not know each other personally, ) and the one I'm keen on doesn't know I'm shagging anyone, (1st date so yknow I kept shtum) We had a really good night, few snogs etc and took her home like a gentleman, then I went home and snagged the other one but it felt a bit empty / dishonest. Do I keep them both on the line until I'm decided.? (2more dates with the one I'm keen on at the most) or do I dump the one who's been there and proceed? Thanks for listening
Ooooohh. Well... The most practical advice is ascertain if the one you really want is really up for a relationship as well. Then part on good terms with the other as fast as possible. That might be one date, might be two but requires some sort of conversation in there about what she is looking for (always about her ****) I dunno after that most on her would say smash both are go for three some I only half think they are joking at times and all.
If the new one is looking for a relationship then be honest with the existing and drop her, but stay friends (without benefits obviously). If they are both happy to just have an open relationship then keep them both, but remember it works both ways and they can walk off as well.
