Your logic is irrefutable, but logic seldom applies in relationships of any type. She's on the dole and no friends have any room to allow her to move in. I'm even tired of telling her to get a ****ing job. If she were working, it would make things a little more simple.
She's under no pressure to get a job though as you're providing her with a roof and putting food on the table. If you ****ed her off she'd get housed by the council, either in a short term B&B or in an available property. You;re being taken for a ride mate.
No Tobes. She's not taking any money off me and she's pretty much feeding herself. I understand where you're coming from, but believe it or not, I find it difficult to be a proper nasty ****
It's not being nasty though mate. It's simply about being fair to you both. You don't want her as a partner and she probably thinks that you do (or might), that aint healthy in the long term for either party. The longer you leave it......the worse it will potentially be....... Cruel to be kind and all that mate
Relationship advice from a distance without knowing all the details or being involved oneself can be tricky. Ultimately, yes, it's in both peoples best long-term interest that RHC tells her the relationship is over and gets her out. However I can see the delicacy of it being said at wrong time or wrong way can make the situation worse. You probably do need an exit strategy RHC, but none of us can tell you how or when to do that because we're not in the relationship.
It'd be all over Latchford in 10 minutes without me telling anyone There was a ****ing maniac in there last night who tried to latch onto me. Got out of nick the day before and claimed to earn his money lick-boxing. He looked and acted like a proper dodgy ****. I just tried to ignore him, but he kept at it. Luckily, my mathematician mate came in unexpectedly and them some high-viz **** came in who was prepared to engage with him. He still insisted on coming over to shake hands as he was departing back to the filthy ****hole that is Burtonwood Don't wish to set eyes on him ever again.
