Defined yourself again. Do you recall the Punch and Judy, Wembley Saturday? A good social Day, FA Cup Final. We met as friends, you met my wife for the first and only time. Why did you feel the need, on such an occasion (or ever) to ask my wife if her husband was handy? Why didn't you ask me? What was your motive? The sad thing is that later that day, I met with OLM on the Wembley concourse, I spoke up for you, I didn't care whether you are handy or not, I don't understand why you would. My wife thought it best to let the day pass, as she knows me well.
I have absolutely no idea what you are on about, I cannot recall ever saying anything like and cannot think in what circumstances I would. Its not a term that I use. There was some banter with others in the room, but no excuses, if I said something that upset your wife, I apologise, not only to you but to your wife as well and I would have done sooner if I was aware of it.
Reading and remembering are not my forte. I read then I forget what iv'e read. I remember that I should read. I read, then I forget. Life can be so difficult at times but I can't always remember why it's so difficult. Drinking is more my forte I drink but can't remember how many I downed. I remember to make it home and am greeted by a not so friendly face. I remember to not upset her the next time I go supping and write it down to remember. The next time I go supping I forget to take my notebook which was to remind me to go easy. Etc
The origin of "stop been" (as far as I can tell): He wrote it on several occasions, well before it became a thing in his honour. ----------------------------------- And this is how "dosile" began - and what a priceless OP that was in that thread: