Hey, bit off topic but I love you guys on here. The following happened to me recently: http://i.imgur.com/2egcA.jpg It's a bit long I kno but still. Any clue how I'm supposed to fix this? Totally distraught about it :|
bah I was hoping noone would say that. she was a really good friend and she's fallen out with me when I did literally nothing wrong.
that I did nothing wrong? Yes. 100%. I wasn't even drunk that night she was totally steaming and she kept invading my space and trying to kiss me. The problem is that this other clown that I spoke to about it simply for convenience since she was there n saw it happen has now brought the whole thing up, unneccessarily and lied about it.
Give her a text every few weeks asking how she is and what shes up to eventually she will come round !!!!!! or go smack the other bitch who dropped you in to the brown stuff or as above just move on !!!. good luck..........................
well there's a couple of wasy you could go about it...the **** stirrer blatantly wants to get you in the sack, so..do her and then take your friend out for food and drinks and then when she comes on to you again this time accept.. or you could take your friend out for a meal and explain the situation regarding the **** stirrer and how you never said such a thing...
Set the **** stirrer up, Mobile phone, record, job done. Then don't be too hasty with your good friend and build her trust back up. Simples Mr Deidre.
she won't come onto me again tho, that's the issue. It's not like she fancies me or anything like that it was just a difficult situation and she was extremely vulnerable that night. And that other bitch doesn't want to sleep with me, she just got serious mental issues. I have already admitted to saying that's what happened. That is what did happen, and I'm not prepared to lie about that. I specifically didn't mention it because it would have caused unneccessary hassle over something that is a none issue, and I had a funny feeling that the other girl wouldn't back me up. Seems I was right, just unfortunately it got brought up for no reason. Also, her fella is a mate as well. I don't even know if he knows about all this yet, I haven't spoken to him in a couple of days and I'm scared to. Strach, I was considering last night giving her something that I like to call a "life-lesson-headbutt". That rage comic was designed to channel my anger in a non-violent way. Took me like 3 hours to do.
tell that to the people on reddit. it's currently got -7 points but that said it also says there've been no votes on it. strange.
well if you think the **** stirrer is gonna say someat to your mates fella then have a word with the dude yourself...better coming from you than some **** stirring idiot
if he's a good mate, there'll be no problem. I had an episode way back when, my best mates bird came on to me at a house party while he was comotose in bed. I ignored her advances but she told him I'd come on to her. I went round to see him and he just said he believed me and not her. Eventually he dumped her as she tried it on with half our football team!! One thing is these things are sent to test us, if she won't listen to you she can't be that good a friend. Time heals, put it down to experience and move on.
She probably will listen to me after a few days. She's got another friend who has lied about her behind her back and she always eventually talks to him again. She's far too forgiving though. Lovely girl and generally quite grown up but she has a couple of areas she needs to work on like hanging around with people who aren't worth the effort, for example.
It's best to let people find out for themselves sometimes. If you get to involved you can push people away.
that's the thing I try my best to not get involved in rubbish like this, but I constantly get dragged in somehow and this time I'm right in the middle of the ****storm. Drives be bloody barmy I wish people including myself would just grow up.
