Hi peeps, I wonder if you can help me with this. I have got a chastity cage on my penis, I have had it on for almost 4 months now as my wife, who is now my ex, wanted to experiment on the BDSM side of a relationship and she liked the control. So 4 months down the line and she decided to break up with me because according to her I was being useless, I wasn't getting to her when she wanted me there, for example, she would say be home for 5 in the evening, I got home at half 5 and she had a massive go at me. And that wasn't the only time. As for ages, I am in my very late twenties and she is too. So a typical relationship. However, when she broke up with me I asked her for the key to my chastity cage however she refused to give it to me. I have texted and left voice mails but she refuses to answer. I don't want to be in this anymore now that we are no longer together. And I can't go looking for a relationship now because she will think I am a massive loser for a bloke whose ex makes him wear a chastity cage! Any ideas? Anything... please!!! Thanks in advance Barrie