I have work with people who have been abused by their partners and many of them are in that situation because they have been abused all their lives. No one has ever treated them with respect or suggested to them that they are worthy of respect. Please do not confuse this with them liking being disrespected. Inside most there beats a heart that is still hoping for a knight in shining armour to save her. As for the "bad boy" thing ..... women often have a belief that they will be the ones to tame the men
There's a lot of truth in this. Also, I think that there's a condition whereby the human mind sticks to what it knows - if you're not used to happiness then you almost avoid it for fear of not being fulfilled by it and almost crave sadness because it's safer emotionally (I don't think that makes as much sense as I'd like). It's symptomatic of deep depression, possibly trauma and is truly heart-breaking.
Minxy, you're not doing much to convince people that women aren't largely responsible for the predicament they often find themselves in
.........Oh but you do Swordsy, surely just supporting the R's has a strong element of masochism about it.
I met my "bad boy" when I was 18 & 30+ years of marriage later he is nearly sorted only problem is he prefers motorbikes to football
Don't, now I have this image of 18.000 QPR supporters donning gimp outfits at HQ on a match day, it doesn't bare thinking about..
really? In 50 shades off grey she doesn't say 'break into my house and forcibly have sex with me' after she 'jokingly' dumps him, nor does she give him any inclination that he can, which would be consensual S & M. What happens in the book is she dumps him, so the affronted 'hero' of this erotic fiction, written by a woman for women, breaks into her house and forcibly has sex with her. That isn't what occurs in S & M where everything is consensual, that is what occurs in a rape. The reason the poorly written crap is so popular amongst women is because, according to pretty much every psychological study into women's sexual fantasies there has ever been, rape is a womans most popular fantasy. Female psychologists and journalists have written numerous articles about it, so it isn't a myth spread by their male counterparts to excuse it. Sadly, most moronic fools like to jump on their high horses espousing a morality that doesn't fit the truth, and those some stupid people believe that a person relaying that information, information freely available to anyone with an internet connection, also subscribes to commiting those actions and are themselves guilty of being some sort of rapist. well, sorry to tell you but I'm not, though I'd bet most of you couldn't say the same, I bet most of you have had sex with a woman after she's been drinking, something I've never done, technically it's rape, as Ched Evans found out. As for my respect for women, some I respect, most I don't, it's not sexism though, peoples gender doesn't come into it, why should I respect people who lack intelligence? After you dig me out abouth what I've written I expect you all to turn your spleens on the psychologists who carried out their studies and all the women they studied and who answered the questionaires,
Oh Alfie Alfie Alfie, there's only so much I can do to keep the wolves at bay. I'm afraid you're on your own from now on bro
Nice editing, I don't have much respect for any people, regardless of their gender, why should I? Their spoon fed bullshit morality, I bet most of the people digging me have had sex with girls that had been drinking beforehand (rape), and voted for one of the large selection of MPs we have that are guilty of being war criminals. I'd rather stand on my own than with a crowd of fools.
Miggins.... Sorry I am too STUPID to reply to this email.... I am obviously not of your intelligence... You who have read 50 Shades of Grey....me too stupid to read..it! Me too stupid to support a proper footy team (some truth in that my QPR brothers). Me too stupid to reply to one of the most disgusting post I have read. I am so stupid all I can think to say is.... Go forth and multiply.. toad.
Jesus Christ you need help. I am not at all surprised that your knowledge of women comes from the internet. You should respect, or at least not despise, people who are not as intelligent as you (...I dread to think) because THEY CAN'T HELP IT. It's their genetic and environmental heritage. To think anything other is fascism, even if you think you are some kind of crusader with your pathetic anti Australian avatar.
Once again, in caps, because you actually do seem too stupid to get the message. GO AND BITCH AT THE WOMEN WHO WERE STUDIED AND THE PSYCHOLOGISTS WHO RELEASED THOSE STUDIES. people can educate themselves, so they can help it and yeah, I do have something against a nation that is eradicating a race, deny common land rights, and have racism written in to their constitution. They make apartheid South Africans look liberals, that's why you never see a non-white face n neighbours or home and away unless they're criminals. A horrible people who voted in a racist xenophobe thanks to the fascistic overtones in his speeches
Sorry UTR...I beat you too it....You only got there second, so no ban for you!!! "GO AND BITCH AT THE WOMEN WHO WERE STUDIED AND THE PSYCHOLOGISTS WHO RELEASED THOSE STUDIES". Don't need to actually Miggins.. I can produce far better scientific coverage than you have read in the Sun. I can send you papers on the psychological and physical damage inflicted by rape, on both men and women. Please read the Independent.... http://www.independent.co.uk/arts-e...and-eating-disorders-study-finds-9687440.html But please just go away, we have more important things to do ....like who the heck is going to play CB tomorrow, is Yun fit, will Ramsey play a youngster
I've had sex with my partner hundreds of time after she's been drinking.......................it's not rape you thick, ignorant, woman hating, sad twat.